Relationship

My boyfriend keeps controlling my alcohol intake and idk what to do. My boyfriend (24m) and me (20f) have been together for almost a year. I have only started drinking since I was 19. I’m still figuring out how these things work and what a tolerance is but in the last year or so I’ve done pretty decent figuring out what to stay away from. My boyfriend seems to think I always over do it when it’s only been 2 times since we’ve started a relation ship and even then it’s only been to the extant of throwing up and weird sentences that don’t exactly make sense. I’ve never actually “hurt” myself per se and ive never even pissed myself or anything like that. Now for my boyfriend’s background. He’s been able to drink since he was like 14 years old. Maybe even younger. He’s done a number of dumb things with his buddy’s and even his with dad including day drinking all day and driving around drunk and his excuse for it is “depression”. I moved away from my entire family almost 2 hours just to be with him and he treats me like a child and with distrust despite him having so much more time to understand alcohol than me. I understand his comments but he’s even trying to keep me away from having three beers even ever eating a huge meal. I get lectures on how to not drink to much every single time we drink. And he hides stuff from me. I work 6-7 days a week just to make up the difference in income, I try so hard to ask if he needs anything or to clean and make things nice when I even have the slightest bit of energy. This is not a plea for help or me saying he’s a bad person. He’s a great person, he’s so smart and funny and I know he cares about me. I just don’t know how to convince him to give me just a little bit of trust. It makes me so sad and quite a bit upset that he has no trust for me to take control into my own hand and improve my relation ship.