I just enjoy a drink !

I drink 3 times a week at most , I drink wine I enjoy it ! I like to sit out in the sunshine with a cold glass of wine I prefer it alone when no one’s bothering me . However on the ODD occasion I’ll have slightly too much and become an asshole or as people say ‘too much’ I would say this happens rarely and it’s definitely not every time . Now because I got a little ‘too drunk’ on Tuesday my friends and partner are messaging me telling me I’m an alcoholic and need help and want me to stop drinking . I don’t want to stop 9/10 I’m fine and I’m just alone having a relaxing time . Why do people want to take away my comfort something I enjoy . Pisses me off, I really want a drink and now I feel like I can’t have one because my partner will be cross . Bare in mind he drinks every single day 👍