Is two to three bottles of wine per week too much?

For context, I don’t drink for emotional purposes and I can easily go without if I want to. Usually on a Friday night I will enjoy a bottle of nice red wine in the evening while watching a movie etc with my fiancé, and then often during the week I will have a bottle spread over a couple of nights. Sometimes I will also have a bottle on a Saturday night too but I have been restricting myself to just two bottles per week best I can.

I ask because my partner seems to think that drinking 2 bottles per week is excessive. I personally don’t think it is, and I don’t let it affect my health/behaviour etc (It doesn’t even get me drunk as I sip the bottle slowly over the course of a few hours). I know people who go out and get shitface drunk every weekend on vodka/whisky and I think my drinking is pretty harmless in comparison, but then I have been drinking like this for some time.

Anyway, I’m just curious what the general perception is. Is two bottles of wine, sometimes three, too much if it’s every week?