Getting drunk for the club

i’m usually really uptight and boring and self conscious. I’ve tried a few times to get drunk enough to allow me to let go and dance, but I don’t really get what the positive effects are meant to be. The main thing I notice after 5-6+ drinks is i get clumsy and uncoordinated. i guess my head feels tingly too but i don’t think i’m THAT disinhibited. i am already pretty social and chatty even when i’m sober. i just can’t dance

max i’ve had was 14 std drinks over about 4 hours, i could dance for a bit but i also had an edible too, so not sure if that helped. i only lasted about an hour of dancing anyway, ideally i would like to be able to tolerate 3-4h.

what are the good parts meant to be and can I learn how to get drunk for the club, and learn how to enjoy being drunk in general?