avoiding fizzy, sugary and acidic drinks. which alcohols are safe (ish)?

i’ve been told i need to cut back on sugary, fizzy, and acidic drinks for the sake of my teeth which are incredibly worn down but i always love going out for drinks. what drinks are the best options to avoid all of the above?

my go to drinks are white wine, bacardi and coke or vodka orange. i thought wine was the safe option but apparently that’s also acidic. i am at such a loss for what could work