Is vodka the worst choice for every day drinking? It doesn’t seem very effective

I have a spotty drinking record, I drink here or there mainly socially in my life (I am 33). Never been a consistent every day drinker. I however find that a held tipsiness or slight inebriation makes everything a bit better and takes the edge off of things.

My intention is to only drink 1 or 2 small drinks a day, nothing more. I have a specific drink that I originally would drink just 1 and it’d take care of me for majority of the day. Its vodka based. I find that sometimes I can drink 1 and be fine, some days 1 or 2 does absolutely nothing and I dont wanna drink anymore cause that is not the habit I want.

I took a break, for a few days, cause I assume it was tolerance, I drank 1 and it got me tipsy for a lil bit but not for very long I was probably going to need a second.

I think Vodka might not be the best choice for just wanting 1 or 2 drinks a day and wanting to keep the liquor confidence going.

Is it just Vodka, or am I just drinking low quality stuff?