Husbands drinking habits. Advice please

My husband 34m has done a lot of things in the past stemming from alcohol. To sum things up quickly, he’s written off a car, nearly killed himself, ended up in a cell. The list goes on. Anyway. He knows that I don’t sleep until he comes home when he goes out anymore. So last night he went out with his friends and didn’t come home until 8am. No contact, no idea where he was. What upset me, is that it was my daughters first show today and he couldn’t get up to help sort them or wish them well. I carried on the day as normal, but didn’t speak to him. He attended the show still drunk and now isn’t talking to me? There is no remorse. I don’t care if he stays out as long as there has been communication, however I think it’s irresponsible for him being like that on the show day. We still haven’t spoken, whilst I have dealt with the kids all day. What I’m looking for is advice on what to say about this situation and or explain how his past behaviour has made me feel.
Thank you.