How to know if your addicted?

So I was watching a channel called “tales from the trip” basically a channel talking about people’s drug experiences/addictions. It was mentioned you can die from alcholol withdrawal. Now I did some research but every website tends to say something different. But how do you even know if your addicted? I mean I drank 14 shots of vodka Saturday night and want to do 10 shots tonight. Is that addiction? Is someone drinking a couple cans of cider every night addicted? The symptoms just look to vague online. For example, red face and losing weight. That could have endless causes. So how do you even know when your addicted? And how do you know if your addicted to the point of you could die from alcholol withdrawal? Is it even common to die from alcholol withdrawal or is the media making it seem worse than it is? I personally don’t feel addicted and I went through a full 70cl bottle of vodka over the weekend. And am drinking probably tonight and definitely on the weekend for my friends party. I dont have any physical or mental withdrawal symptoms. Its just so vague.