My friends say needing a drink every 1-2 weeks is alcoholism, I disagree. Thoughts?

I will go out drinking with friends at least once a week, party at least 3-4 times a month, and go clubbing at least 2 times a month. I do not typically drink at home alone, When at a party, similar to my friends I will have 6-10 standards over the course of 3-4 hours, I always stop drinking by 2am so I don’t feel the hangover too bad the next day.

but if I haven’t done any of the above in the last week or two I will have a drink or two, my friends say this is unhealthy. I still think this is all more healthy than drinking a couple of drinks every day. I do often want to get drunk, but only do every couple of weeks and only ever socially.