LOSING DRINKING FRIENDS – NO ONE SEEMS TO BE TALKING ABOUT THIS AND ONLY ABOUT SOBERING UP
Ok … so all my buddies I usually drink with on the weekends have either stopped drinking all together or they only want maybe 1 drink . We all used to have so much fun and we’d get drink maybe twice a month . In our 30’s now , everyone seems to apparently : get sick more easily when drinking , sick of feeling crappy after drinking , body can’t handle alcohol like it used to , isn’t worth it … ect ect ext . I guess I can’t relate cuz I am fine after alcohol ( unless I go SUPER fuckin hard which is like a few times a year ) . I love these friends and still will hangout with them . But , I’d like to find new drinking friends . It just sucks cuz every time I search this issue online to see if anyone else can relate or has suggestions on this , it legit is either : help oh no i stopped drinking will my friends still like me help help what am i to do , or : various articles related to how to seek help for alcoholism lolz .
IS THERE ANYONE ELSE LIKE ME OUT THERE THAT JUST WANTS TO HAVE FUN AND SOMETIMES GET A LITTLE TIPSY WHILE WE DO ESCAPE ROOMS , CONVENTIONS , NEW YEARS PARTIES , OR WATCHING A SILLY MOVIE BUT NONE OF THEIR FRIENDS WANNA DRINK LIKE AT ALLLLL AND ALL OF A SUDDEN IT SEEMS ALCOHOL AND ALL SUBSTANCES ARE DEMONIZED ??? IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO CAN EMPATHIZE WITH ME AND NOT JUST THE YIPEEE I’VE SEEN JEZUZ GOIN SOBER NOW CLUB ???
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