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Should I go out with my friend drinking when they have issues with Alcohol?

So, me & my friend who is my ex and we on and off again tbh. Mainly because I cut them off after they physically hurt me when they were really drunk. It was really triggering and I don’t put up with that behaviour.

Slowly, we started talking again and hanging out. They were very apologetic and although I don’t believe they would hurt someone if they weren’t out my mind, I still don’t feel comfortable or safe around them drinking.

They told me they didn’t plan on drinking again after that. And they drank a couple drinks at a party to help them feel comfortable. Now, they are inviting me to go out with them and they just told me I’d have to be okay with them drinking.

They said it wouldn’t be ‘a lot’ but drinking was there plan. I don’t really have any friends tbh and just got through a rough week and feel like having a bit of fun. I just feel really weird and uncomfortable around the idea of them drinking.

What would you do? Would you go? Would it be a f*ck no with this person? Or would you play it by ear and go but if anything goes wrong, leave when need too. Obvs I can’t and aren’t going to tell this person what to do and not to do but would you be comfortable around this person drinking after they hurt you one time? Even if they aren’t ’planning’ to drink as much?

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