Driving

Hey there, I grew up in a home with alcoholic parents and because of that I realize I have some anxiety around people drinking. I’m dating someone and we keep arguing over my anxiety over getting in the car with him after party when we both have been drinking. I don’t know when he is completely sober and I don’t think he fully knows that either, but he keeps calling me paranoid about it And maybe he’s right because I have a history of anxiety around people drinking in general. If you guys have a party planned like a house party – how do you plan on arriving at the party and returning home? Do you typically just moderate your drinks or you have one beer per hour or do you just automatically plan for an Uber? I’m not really used to going to parties so just trying to figure out a healthy balance, sometimes the parties are like an hour away. Right now the solution that we’re thinking of us we just arrive at party separately since I like to pay for Uber versus count drinks and he doesn’t want to pay for Ubers.