I only feel happy, loving and socialable when I drink alcohol

Just want to say im not an alcoholic. I barely drink. Like once per month, or once every few months.

But I noticed, I feel just neutral when im not drinking, i dont particularly want to meet people, maybe a bit of anxiety about going out, meeting people, talking to people. just focused on work and self improvement. very serious i guess. but not depressed or anything i dont think

But when i drink like 1 can of beer, immediately i feel happy, loving, want to talk to people, feel less anxiety, feel less doom, feel less like everyone hates me, feel happier, laugh more, smile more, love life

is there a way to overcome this? is there a way i can feel those feelings whether im having a drink or not?