Is drinking really a problem

A lot of people on the internet keep talking about being sober is an accomplishment.

Does alcohol really fuck up lives.

I actually think alcohol is a plus in my life. A few shots in social events is so relaxing. Or a glass of wine after a long day of work. or a few beers with the boys on Fridays such a good time.

I really think I should be drinking more frequently. Right now I drink like 2 days a week, never fucked up. And can probably just not drink for a year if I wanted to

So many NEED to be “sober people” around me. Am I missing something ?