I’ve been sober for 8 months.

I feel like I’m missing out. I’m 23 and I’ve had my fair share of drinking during high school and college. I think I enjoy the idea of being sober but I think about how much I enjoyed a nice whiskey. Maybe I’ll have it under control this time. Or should I shoot for an alcohol free life? Be 40 years with no drink? I have disappointed friends and family and that keeps me at bay, but would it be better if I had strict rules surrounding or not at all? I need some opinions and be brutally honest.