What defines an alcoholic?

All subteddits I could find requires the poster to be sober so I hope it’s OK for me to post here. I never used to drink much at all, maybe twice a year. But at least since Feb 4th of this year I’ve been drunk almost everyday. Maybe 10 days since then I didn’t drink. And it’s the type of drunk that I’m stumbling through my house and puking. My question is how long can I go like this until I’m addicted? I want to stop before then. But I’m worried. Because I started to escape my feelings and now I do it to feel normal/okay. I don’t want to be an alcoholic. And I want to stop it before I get there. Do how long do i have? Am I still good for another month or something? I know everyone is different. But I think it’s only been two months and when does it turn into addiction? How do I know when the point of no return is? If I can’t post this here please advise of another sub. I would never post this sober I know myself so I need a place that allows drunk posting. Thank you.