Alcohol intolerance/no hangovers ever?

I guess I’m wondering what people even do if they’re intolerant. I just googled and discovered that I probably am- I get the red face/neck (yes im Asian), headache, and sometimes stuffy nose and shivering. All this time i thought I just didn’t enjoy being drunk as much as other people for some inexplicable reason. Am I for sure intolerant- and this is definitely not what other people experience when drinking? Because I do enjoy the feeling and ease of socializing, it just always comes at the cost of these symptoms. Is the only solution to not drink at all or??? Also- whenever i read other peoples experiences w this they mention horrible hangovers. I’ve never had a hangover- and (very) occasionally I have had a lot to drink without puking if I pace myself really slow. At most I’ll feel shitty the next day but never a pounding headache or sensitivity to light/sound or anything