I need help ordering drinks!

Hello, I’ve been going to the bars downtown more often but I’m what most would consider a “light weight” to the drinking scene. But I need help finding drinks that I like and how to order drinks that I would like to try and not sound dumb. To get a sense of what I like, I sometimes drink Twisted Teas and absolutely love Mikes Hard Lemonade. I also love lemon drop shots. I would like to know how to order a like an alcoholic sweet tea that’s not that strong. If I could get a few recommendations and directions on how to order them I would highly appreciate it and it doesn’t have to be lemony that’s just what I know I like. The same goes for shots as well, Thank you so much! P.S. I also don’t mind fruit drinks.