[Question] how to better enjoy spirits

As I’m sure many people are aware, alcohol tastes gross. I have a hard time with any strong drink or shot. But I want to be able to enjoy things like whiskey, shochu, sake, rum, etc. I know that many people are able to withstand the nastiness on the second or third shot of their lives. I’ve tried separating the flavors in my mind with success but it makes the sting of drinks stronger. I drink beer easily and enjoy the tastes, and cocktails are a breeze, wine is alright, but everything higher than that is hard to get down. Even though sake is usually not much stronger than wine it’s harder to drink. Even at the recommended temperatures.